INFJ

Have you discovered your Myers-Brigg Type Indicator? There is an online test. It is amazing. Lately I have been really reflective and trying to decide what I should do with my life. I sometimes wonder if I chose teaching because it is practical. While on this journey to finding myself, I discovered my MBTI. I am an INFJ. That means I am an Introverted iNtuitive Feeling Judging. As I read about this type, my eyes widened in amazement. It perfectly describes. This has lead to some different career options for me to explore. I am excited about the future. Here are a couple sites:
 http://www.typelogic.com/infj.html

https://www.personalitypage.com/INFJ.html

Here are some quotes:
"INFJs have a knack for fluency in language and facility in communication. In addition, nonverbal sensitivity enables the INFJ to know and be known by others intimately.
Writing, counseling, public service and even politics are areas where INFJs frequently find their niche."

"INFJs are distinguished by both their complexity of character and the unusual range and depth of their talents. Strongly humanitarian in outlook, INFJs tend to be idealists, and because of their J preference for closure and completion, they are generally "doers" as well as dreamers. This rare combination of vision and practicality often results in INFJs taking a disproportionate amount of responsibility in the various causes to which so many of them seem to be drawn."

"INFJs are deeply concerned about their relations with individuals as well as the state of humanity at large. They are, in fact, sometimes mistaken for extroverts because they appear so outgoing and are so genuinely interested in people -- a product of the Feeling function they most readily show to the world. On the contrary, INFJs are true introverts, who can only be emotionally intimate and fulfilled with a chosen few from among their long-term friends, family, or obvious "soul mates.""

"While instinctively courting the personal and organizational demands continually made upon them by others, at intervals INFJs will suddenly withdraw into themselves, sometimes shutting out even their intimates. This apparent paradox is a necessary escape valve for them, providing both time to rebuild their depleted resources and a filter to prevent the emotional overload to which they are so susceptible as inherent "givers.""

"INFJs are gentle, caring, complex and highly intuitive individuals. Artistic and creative, they live in a world of hidden meanings and possibilities. Only one percent of the population has an INFJ Personality Type, making it the most rare of all the types."

"INFJs place great importance on having things orderly and systematic in their outer world. They put a lot of energy into identifying the best system for getting things done, and constantly define and re-define the priorities in their lives. On the other hand, INFJs operate within themselves on an intuitive basis which is entirely spontaneous. They know things intuitively, without being able to pinpoint why, and without detailed knowledge of the subject at hand. They are usually right, and they usually know it. Consequently, INFJs put a tremendous amount of faith into their instincts and intuitions. This is something of a conflict between the inner and outer worlds, and may result in the INFJ not being as organized as other Judging types tend to be. Or we may see some signs of disarray in an otherwise orderly tendency, such as a consistently messy desk. "

"They are deep, complex individuals, who are quite private and typically difficult to understand. INFJs hold back part of themselves, and can be secretive.
But the INFJ is as genuinely warm as they are complex. INFJs hold a special place in the heart of people who they are close to, who are able to see their special gifts and depth of caring."

"INFJs are concerned for people's feelings, and try to be gentle to avoid hurting anyone. They are very sensitive to conflict, and cannot tolerate it very well. Situations which are charged with conflict may drive the normally peaceful INFJ into a state of agitation or charged anger. They may tend to internalize conflict into their bodies, and experience health problems when under a lot of stress.
Because the INFJ has such strong intuitive capabilities, they trust their own instincts above all else. This may result in an INFJ stubborness and tendency to ignore other people's opinions. They believe that they're right. On the other hand, INFJ is a perfectionist who doubts that they are living up to their full potential. INFJs are rarely at complete peace with themselves - there's always something else they should be doing to improve themselves and the world around them. They believe in constant growth, and don't often take time to revel in their accomplishments. They have strong value systems, and need to live their lives in accordance with what they feel is right."

It says my type is rare. Maybe that's why I have always felt so different. I encourage you to also discover your MBTI!



 

My Maggie

The next three days I will be super busy

with work, but today I was able to spend

some quality time with my fur baby! I

love my Maggie so much!!She is just so

cute, and her training is going so well! I am

so proud of her!

 

 

I love this my puppy so much!

 



My Niece Came to Visit

My sister lives in Atlanta, and I do not get to see her very often.

She had my niece back in August. When she called and said she

was bringing Merci Grace for a visit I was super excited. She is

precious, beautiful, and adorable. I love her so much!

 

 

While we had such a great time together

I can't wait for her to get a little older so

we can do lots of fun stuff together. This

weekend she mostly slept : )

 

I love my sister and my niece so much!!!!

 



5 on FRIDAY

Woohoo! It's Friday! I am so happy it's the weekend!!! I am going to get to visit with my grandparents, watch some basketball with my husband, walk my puppy, get my nails done, and relax!!!!! I am so excited it's the weekend. Since I am wanting to get a pedicure, I have to decide on a color. For my 5 things, I am going to share 5 awesome colors. I am having a difficult time deciding which color to choose. If you have any suggestions, please feel free to comment!!! I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend!!

 

 

1. I absolutely LOVE this shade of green.

One of our wedding colors was

jade green, and I think it's beautiful.

 

2. I like the second one as a neutral option.

 

3. I love PINK nails!! They are so

perfect for SPRING!! This

shade is so pretty!

 

4. I also like option

number 4. It is very

soft and feminine.

 

5. Purple is one of my all

time favorite colors, and this

shade is totally awesome!

 

Now I just have to decide!

 

 

Maggie

Maggie

The reason I have been away from my blog is mostly because of this sweet little puppy. My husband and I adopted her in December, and life has been a little crazy since that day. I love her so very much, but she can be a little unruly. This is why I am excited to announce that we are starting our precious Maggie in a puppy training class on Sunday. I can't wait! I really hope it works. She knows how to drive me crazy in one minute and the next minute melt my heart with her sweetness. She truly is my baby. I love her and want her to be the best dog she can be. She is so cute, and I am excited to come home to her everyday! I really hope these puppy classes will help her to be more obedient. If anyone has any suggestions, please feel free to comment. She is a Beagle mix. She acts much like a typical Beagle. In some ways that is great, and in others not so great. My husband and I love her so much; she has truly captured our hearts. I do plan to be posting more as life as finally started to calm down. It is a beautiful spring day in Alabama, and Maggie is looking forward to many more spring days filled with lots of walks. I never knew I could love an animal so much! She is just so precious!! I look forward to making many more wonderful memories with her.

Everyone has a Story

I would always tell my students that everyone has a story, and I truly do believe this. When it comes to my story there are many aspects that most people know. Most people that are involved in my life know that I am the oldest of six children. My parents had me, then Christina and Christopher (twins), and then they decided to pause. Eventually they had Nicolas and Michael and McKenna (twins). I am almost 10 years older than Michael and McKenna. I look back at my life and realize I grew up quickly with all the responsibilities of being the first born in a large family. At times I didn't always like my situation, but now that I am 26 years old I appreciate just how wonderful my family is. Family is the thing I cherish most. Most people also know that I met my husband when we were in the 7th grade. We began dating our senior year of high school. We dated for 6 years. Marrying Michael was the best decision I ever made. During our time together, my family has expanded because of Michael's awesome family. I am truly blessed by our loving families. Something most people do not know is that we have been trying to have a baby since January 2013. I want nothing more than to have children with my husband and be a mommy.

Through the struggle to become pregnant my relationship with God has strengthen. Most days would have been unbearable without Him and His presence and peace in my life. That is not to say this year has been easy. I have had to rely on Him like I never had before. My mother was able to have so many children and now my younger sister has already had her first child. I feel like as a woman I should be able to do this one thing above all other things. I know that is silly to say, but that is how I feel. I know that God has an amazing plan for my life and that I need to wait on His timing, but that is easier said than done. I am so grateful for my husband and his unending kindness, compassion, and love for me. I am also so very thankful for the blogs I have discovered that show me that we are not alone in this struggle to become pregnant. I know there are people out there that having been trying for years and years and years to become pregnant. Their advice and experiences are encouraging. I know that God will give me the desires of my heart, but that it may be in a way that I could never imagine on my own. Speaking of God's way, He chose to have His Son born in a stable. The Innkeeper really missed out on being a part of an amazing experience. With that said, I do not want to become so consumed with trying to have a baby that I miss out on something God has prepared just for me. I know that He has placed this desire to be a mommy in my heart. I now just need to be patient and wait on Him. I am so thankful for the lessons I have learned this year and for the lessons I will continue to learn. While I very much want to be blessed with a child, I do realize that I have already been blessed with many wonderful gifts from God. I want my focus to be on seeking the Lord and His plan for my life. I know that some days will be easier than others. For those more difficult days, it is nice to know the stories of others and to know that I am not alone in this struggle. My hope is that a baby is in our near future, but if that is not the case I want to remain thankful for the family that I do have.

5 on Friday

This week my husband and I have seriously enjoyed some good television. It is so nice to come home after a long day at work and relax with my man while we watch are shows. This Fall there are 5 shows that I just LOVE!

1. Blacklist

It is new and it is oh so good! I am so ready for next week!

 

2. Sleepy Hollow

This is also new, and it also comes on tv on Monday nights. Mondays are just about the best television day. I love all of the mystery in this show!

 

 

3. How I Met Your Mother

I am very sad that this is the last season of HIMYM. My husband and I have watched this show together since the beginning. I will be sad when it is over. For now it brings laughter to our Monday night line-up. I so love this show and all the great characters.

 

4. The Big Bang Theory

This show brings tons of laughter into our home. I love watching this with my hubby on Thursday nights. I can't wait to see what will happen next week.

 

5. On Sundays we have several shows we watch. While I am so ready for Walking Dead to return, my absolute favorite Sunday night show is Revenge. Every week it gets better and better!

 

 

I hope everyone is enjoying this wonderful October weekend!